let's rally!

Hi there Team Kelly :)  

Preston Trail Community Church (where the Stewart family attends) would like to invite all of you TK WOMEN to attend the Reckless...No Fear, All Faith Conference featuring Jen Hatmaker...October 25th & 26th!! Kelly will be honored during it and as a Team Kelly supporter you can use promo code TK$10 for a $10 discount! How awesome to show the world what an impact Kelly has made in all of our lives!?!  Wear your TK shirts on Friday Night of the conference :) More information can be found on the links below.  

Reckless...Jen Hatmaker Conference

Reckless Conference Registration

Or you can contact:

Dawn Dean

Women's Ministry Assistant

Preston Trail Community Church 

dawnd@prestontrail.org 

As always there is never a dull moment in a household with 4 kids!  This fall has been filled with football games, baseball games, cheer practice and more.  Here are a few pics from Homecoming last week!

emily, ella and will at Centennial's Homecoming Pep Rally :)

Emily and Will were elected 

Freshmen Princess and Prince!!  

Don't ya know Kelly is smiling BIG?!  

Will is so much like his mama!

love the TK purple :)

 hayden and will have been friends since itty bitty...

and some hunting pics from labor day...

As you all know the PURPLE STRIDE is coming up

November 9th at Klyde Warren Park!  It's that really cool new park they built on top of Woodall Rogers Freeway!  So come on Team Kelly...let's walk for a cure & treatment research for Pancreatic Cancer!  It's only $30 for adults and $10 for kids!  

GO TEAM KELLY :)

Thank you all for continued prayers, love and support!

Some prayer requests for now:

-for grand & pap-paw, nana & pops, us sisters and all of our family

-for the Purple Stride

-for the Team Kelly Foundation

-for each one of us in our grief as each day brings a new hurdle to leap across without her here

-for jason, will, ben, sam and ella...always

PURPLE... the official color of Fall

Hello Team Kelly!

We are looking forward to joining with so many of you on November 9th for the Annual PurpleStride walk to raise awareness and funds for pancreatic cancer research. 

Last year 126 of us joined Kelly and her family in Reverchon Park and took over the Katy Trail wearing our GOT HOPE - TEAM KELLY shirts. So far we have 36 members and have raised over $1,700!

REGISTER FOR TEAM KELLY'S PURPLESTRIDE.

WHEN:  Saturday, November 9th

WHERE:  KLYDE WARREN PARK  2012 Woodall Rogers Freeway, Dallas, TX 75201

ROUTE MAP

Registration opens at 8:00 AM

Opening Ceremonies 9:00 AM

Run/Walk begins at 9:30 AM

Closing Ceremonies at 11:00 AM

Can't make it to the PurpleStride?

PurpleLight

 

PurpleLight National Vigil for Hope is a time to honor loved ones fighting pancreatic cancer and those who have lost the fight. Join us in creating awareness of pancreatic cancer and honoring those who have battled this disease, knowing that people all across the United States are doing the same. 

Cost:  FREE

Date:  October 27, 2013

Time:  6:45 PM

Location:  Ft. Worth Botanic Garden - Oak Hall, 3220 Botanic Garden Blvd., Ft. Worth, TX 76107

Click HERE for more information about The PurpleLight

If you have any questions, please contact Gayla Cruikshank at 214-533-4260 or gaylacruikshank@yahoo.com.

Stewart family, Team Kelly loves y'all so much! We're here for you always, so please continue to reach out to when you need us for anything.

Happy Birthday Kel!

We all miss you so much!

-Jason, Will, Ben, Sam and Ella

Tatum

Sorry, but I couldn't narrow it down so I thought I'd share all of these - I just miss that crazy curly hair so much....

These pics are from 18 years ago, and that cute little flower girl is my niece, Tatum.  She's all grown up now, and she and one of her sisters, Jill, are both down at A&M.  It's incredible how quickly all of that went by!

There's good blood in this family when it comes to the women - Granny Biggs; Grand (Prewitt) and all her sisters; Kim, Kelly and Carol; and this fourth generation - Tatum, Jill, Cate, Ella and Meg. That's not to mention all the 3rd and 4th generation daughters from those other Biggs sisters. They've all been a huge blessing to me and my family, and to Kelly while she was with us.  But today I wanted to give the spotlight to my eldest niece Tatum, and thank her for what has turned out to be one of the greatest blessings of my life.

When Kelly passed, my employers were very gracious in allowing me to take my time getting back to the office, but eventually you have to move on and get back to some form of normalcy.  Faced with the sudden onset of summer I figured I had to find someone to "babysit" the kids.  What I didn't realize at the time was that what I really needed was someone to take complete charge of my household.  I knew in my heart who the perfect person was, but she had a summer job already, plus she lives in Rowlett and I knew I needed someone to be in Frisco at the crack of dawn every day and stay until I made it home from work.  But I mentioned it to my brother in law anyway, and in short order, Tatum made arrangements with her summer employer and was "all in" for the summer.  

 When I say "all in," I mean ALL IN.  I've used that term for Kelly, and it fit for Tatum too.  Many of you got used to me telling you this summer that if you wanted to know if one of the kids could come over, stay the night, go to the movies - whatever - that my response was "Call Tatum - she's in charge."  Every day in the Stewart household is like planning the D-day invasion, and Tatum was up to the task.  Every time I thought of something I'd forgotten to write down, I'd find out Tatum was one (or many more) steps ahead of me.

The kids never missed a practice or a game, were all well packed for camps and vacations, kept the tradition of the summer "bucket list" alive (and checked off most of the items), beat the Dills in the 2nd annual Stewart-Dill Olympics,  built a massive rainy-day pillow/blanket fort, got registered for school, made it to pick up their schedules, met their lockers and walked their schedules, even got all their school supplies, and actually did chores - and on top of all that they were actually loved and nurtured by someone that learned how to love and nurture the way Kelly did.

My poor planning late in the summer resulted in a gap between caregivers.  I figured they'd survive a couple of days, at home by themselves.  I almost had a mutiny on my hands!  I had to call Kim and Carol to the rescue.  It's probably not accurate to describe anything my kids have been through as "being spoiled," but they certainly had gotten used to being guided and watched over by someone special.

Tatum and I missed each other the last couple of days before she left to go back to school, because I was off at our lease land in OK shooting and blowing things up with friends, so I never had a proper chance to thank her for what she did for me and my family.  I returned from the trip to find that she had managed during those 10 weeks to document in a journal all the funny and touching conversations she'd had with the kids.  All five of us will cherish that forever.

But most importantly for all of us (I think including Tatum) we got to take valuable time to grieve and heal.  I believe that most in my circumstances would probably have been faced with constant worry, pressure, and outright fear for the safety and well-being of their families.  Instead, God gave us Tatum, and because of her our home was filled all summer with peace, love, and laughter - and that adds up to a whole lot of Kelly!

Tatum - we all love you very much, and miss you a ton!  Not sure what your plans are for next summer....

back to school...

Hi there team kelly :)

I stare at this blank screen trying to come up with anything to write or report to you.  I try channel her thoughts...if only I could say "beam me up scottie" just to have a little chat with her!  Please know that so much of this blog was TYPED by me, but WRITTEN by her...many times over the phone late at night or early in the morning.

While trying to think about what she would want me to say...it dawned on me that she would want to show you that the kids are ok.  God answered some big prayers with moving Jason's mom...aka Nana...into a nearby apartment during the week.  Nana's law firm (that she has worked at for many years) allowed her to change her work schedule to accommodate getting the kids off to school and being home for them in the afternoon.  An incredible sacrifice for Nana and Pops no doubt (Pops, we hope you aren't starving!)  Relying on Nana, we all made it through the first and second weeks of school.  It has been very emotional, but we still made it.  Here are some first day pics :)

This pic by the tree has been a tradition for the Stewarts for some time now.  

I wish I had those previous years pics to show you, but this will have to do for now :)

 2013-14 school year!

will 9th, ben 8th, ella 4th, sam 5th

sweet ella texted tatum to make sure her outfit was cute for the first day of school :)

and the cousins did just fine as well...

cole 6th, meg 2nd

cate 7th

and the big girls...tatum and jill...made it through their first couple weeks in Aggie land...

tatum is a junior and jill is a freshman.  If only I knew how to steal pics off instagram...sorry :(

So a few other things to tell ya about...

--THE PURPLE STRIDE - Let's all sign up to walk in person or virtually with TEAM KELLY!  It was such an incredible turn out last year!  Wouldn't it be amazing if we doubled our numbers in honor of our sweet Kelly this year?! 

--TEAM KELLY FOUNDATION - We are still trying to figure out TKF's vision and mission, but we are well on our way to making this foundation something truly astounding!  We even have a website!  Although we aren't quite ready to launch, it is HAPPENING!  That gets me crazy excited.  Kelly wanted her illness to transform into something that glorified God by helping others.  I know she is smiling!  

--TEAM KELLY MUM RIBBONS - Kelly's dear friend, Katy and her husband Greg have donated TK ribbons for your high schooler's homecoming mums!  Each ribbon will cost $1 and will be sold at Frisco Centennial High School.  All proceeds will go to TKF!  Thank you Katy and Greg for your generosity, love, support and prayers.  

Some prayer requests for now:

1.  For the TK Foundation...vision, direction and execution

2.  For Nana and Pops as they settle into a very different unknown routine

3.  For Grand and Pa-paw, Kim and Kevin, Carol and Blake as well as Tatum, Jill, Cate, Cole and Meg

4.  For our sweet friend Katy going through some really harsh chemo

5.  For Jason, Will, Ben, Sam and Ella...always.

TEAM KELLY PURPLE STRIDE

Please join us November 9, 2013 to walk or run in the

Pancreatic Cancer PURPLE STRIDE

to fund a cure for pancreatic cancer.

Sign up here:

Team Kelly Purple Stride

Event Details

Date:	Saturday, November 9, 2013
Event Schedule:	Registration Opens: 8:00 a.m. Opening Ceremonies: 9:00 a.m. Run/Walk Begin: 9:30 a.m. Closing Ceremonies: 11:00 a.m.
Location:	Klyde Warren Park 2012 Woodall Rodgers Freeway Dallas, Texas 75201

Tammy My Nurse!

That's the way her contact was entered on Kelly's phone - exclamation point and all - and now in mine as well.  Not sure why Kelly did things like that, but in this case it fits - "Tammy My Nurse!"  It took me months to figure out what her last name was.  Many of you have met Tammy, and most of the rest have heard about her by now.  Early during treatment she took care of Kelly and quickly became one of her most trusted friends.  At first, on the surface at least, it seemed an odd pairing, but that was very much a Kelly thing too.

We scheduled treatment to make sure Tammy was working and available to care for Kelly.  Tammy would see her on the schedule and save the big corner spot knowing that she would roll in with her entourage.  The 2-guest limit rule posted on the infusion lab door didn't apply to Kelly.  In fact, when it came to Kelly and Tammy, most of the rules didn't apply.  Kelly had that "Do you know who I am?" audacity and Tammy never questioned it - in fact she embraced and encouraged it.

Tammy's calm, usually joking demeanor belies the almost manic ferocity with which she approaches her job. And in case there is any confusion, Tammy's job is to take care of her patients - to shoot straight with them, make them comfortable, assuage fear, relieve pain.  

Early on, we figured out there is much more to Tammy My Nurse! than meets the eye. She seemed to have achieved a level of expertise concerning every part of every patient's disease, their symptoms, their meds, the side effects of their meds, all of which suggested she had been practicing for 15 or 20 years.  Then we figured out she was only 3 or 4 years into a second (or 3rd or 4th or 5th) "career" as a nurse.  We visited her at her home last mother's day on our way to Midlothian and met her husband as well as her menagerie - too many dogs to count, a bird and a bald python (may he rest in peace).  Just when we thought we had figured Tammy out, we were sitting with Kelly in the infusion lab one day and watched as she answered the office phone and began rattling off fluent Spanish to someone on the other end.  I told her she was "the most interesting woman in the world," and she just stared at me blankly, having never seen the Dos Equis beer commercials I was referring to - I mean who has time to watch TV?

A few weeks ago, I accompanied our dear friends Kris and Kristi to the "Chemo Lounge" to see Tammy so they could drop off a gift card.  Many Team Kelly members had gotten together and chipped in to buy her a Visa card both out of need (family medical issues - keep her and her husband in your prayers, please) and appreciation for all she had done for Kelly.  That was on a Friday, and the following Sunday we got this text from Tammy - 

"Hi all.  have I told you how much I love you?  I was most overwhelmed when we met last.  I wanted to express my amazement and gratitude for your generosity of spirit.  I felt somewhat undeserving however, and thus I hope you won't be upset that I used the money altruistically.  A patient who needed a wheelchair but couldn't afford it now has one and I also helped a patient who needed the Sancuso patch (the patch is not covered by medicare).  Please know that as I get to know all of you better and better I become more inspired and have more to strive for. I love all of you and thank you for taking me into the fold of your beautiful and bright family.  I am truly blessed."

She did go on to say that she bought herself and Albert dinner.  She also went on to say that this is what Team Kelly is all about.  So true - and I want everyone reading this to know that we are in the process of establishing the vision and mission for what I intend to be a permanent memorial foundation so that we can capitalize on this type of love and selflessness so many of you share.  There are a lot of you out there who have been in the trenches so long for Kelly's sake and for my family's sake, and we don't want to lose any of that momentum.  We have raised close to $15,000 just through contributions to the memorial fund, and that will be seed money for this mission!  There is much to be done - cancer has not been idle the last several weeks and we can't afford to be either!

We ask for your continued prayers for all of Kelly's family and friends.  We ask that you pray for those of us contemplating the vision and mission for Team Kelly going forward that we might be able to bless the lives of countless others out there in need of comfort and care.  Also, please remember Kelly's (and our) dear friend Katy and her family as they continue on a frightening journey through cancer and chemo.  For now especially I pray that they find comfort and care in the form of their very own Tammy My Nurse!